
In recent years, our society has come to appreciate more and more the power of our attitudes, thoughts, and perspectives to shape our lives. We are not simply a mathematical-like result of the things that have happened to us- we are greatly shaped by the way we understand and relate internally to life’s events. We see firsthand how attitude can impact a classroom, a workplace, or a sports team.
One path to a stronger inner life is cultivating a greater sense of gratitude.
Of all the gratitude we might offer in this life, I believe the intentional decision to give thanks to God should be our starting point. I include the phrase “intentional decision” because far too often our thanksgiving to God can become unfocused and generic. While we are certainly thankful for “all our many blessings,” it will powerfully change the mental/spiritual impact of our gratitude when we make offering specific thanks to God a part of every day.
Was the sunrise beautiful this morning? Offer thanksgiving in that moment.
Did a friend receive good news about a health scare? Pause and give thanks.
Has your wayward adult child expressed a desire to return to Christ? Let your heart exalt in thanksgiving then and there.
Did the meeting at work go well with all parties leaving satisfied? Lift a word of thanks for that blessing.
In reality, it is not that we lack things to be thankful for, but that we are often not paying attention and fail to acknowledge God as the source of the good in our lives. Deciding to see His blessings and to speak thanks to Him changes our perspective for the better.
While God is to be thanked for every good gift, it is also vital that we freely offer thanks to the people around us. In the busyness of daily life, it can be easy to take for granted the presence and sacrifices of parents, spouse, children, or coworkers. We do not need special occasions to thank those who have shaped us into who we are.
Showing gratitude to those nearest to us is sometimes difficult not due to distance or lack of opportunity, but simply because we do not intentionally think about it or because it seems odd to offer thanks for what we expect from certain people. Even routine actions that we might have taken for granted at work or around the house present occasions for gratitude and thanks.
Grace and gratitude naturally work to bond people and to diffuse potential conflict. Much tension in our personal relationships could be resolved if we thanked more and criticized less.
In perhaps an odd turn, I also mention that we should offer thanks to those who oppose us. When people disagree with us or our views, we can respond with grateful appreciation for the reminder to examine our position and make any needed corrections. Even if we are in the right, such opposition provides us with more opportunities to offer grace to others. It is hard to see that sometimes the very thing that seems to harm us in the moment is an avenue to greater blessing and influence. Growth comes not from opposition itself, but from our response and our choice to see challenges as potential channels of blessing.
Living our days in a mindset that actively seeks to be thankful will change how we perceive and respond in our relationships and in the circumstances of our lives.
Gratitude possesses great spiritual power, and when we intentionally look for blessings and seek opportunities to give thanks, we will always find more of both.








